Reading to their children helps incarcerated parents maintain a powerful connection

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Two San Bernardino County departments are joining forces to help incarcerated parents better connect with their children through the simple but valuable act of reading books to them.

Last month, volunteers from the San Bernardino County Public Defender’s Office volunteered time and donated items to the Parent and Child Connection (PACC), a program run by the Inmate Services Unit of the San Bernardino County Sheriff’s Department.

The PACC program gives incarcerated parents the opportunity to record themselves reading books to their children and include personal messages. The goal is to create a connection between the parent and child while reinforcing the importance of reading. Studies show that children who are not read to are at risk for poor language development and are less prepared for classroom learning.

“It’s obviously difficult for parents to be away from their kids and being incarcerated brings its own complications,” said San Bernardino County Deputy Public Defender Yarrow Neubert. “The parents were very happy to be able to connect with their kids thru the PACC program.”

The donation from the Public Defender’s Office included three boxes of children’s books in English and Spanish. Additionally, volunteers from the department traveled to the Glen Helen Rehabilitation Center twice last month to assist incarcerated parents record books for more than 70 children.

Neubert added that the Public Defender’s Office plans to continue donating and volunteering to the PACC program. They are working on expanding their participation in PACC by applying for a grant with the nonprofit, Place4Grace, which already has similar programs in 14 state prisons.

She explained why the department has taken this step saying, “We, as an office, take a holistic approach in terms of representation. We’re always looking for opportunities to liaison with other agencies, be it county agencies or nonprofits to provide additional support or services to our clients and their families.”

PACC is one component of the Parental Intervention Program. It is offered at all four county detention centers, but mainly provided at the Glen Helen Detention Center and the High Desert Detention Center because of time and staff commitment.

“Creating partnerships with other county agencies strengthens our mission to provide services that will help our inmates to be successful when they are released,” said Chris Martin, director of Inmate Services for the San Bernardino County Sheriff’s Department. “The book donations and the volunteers from the Public Defender's Office allow us to offer PACC to more incarcerated parents, which will in turn create or strengthen the bond with their children and give them a big reason not to recidivate.”

The Parent Intervention Program also conducts Trauma Recovery and Relations Classes to incarcerated parents, a program created by Dr. Laura Kamptner and Dr. Faith McClure from California State University San Bernardino. Once the parents complete the class, they may be able to participate in TALK (Teaching and Loving Kids), a program that allows children to visit their incarcerated parent under supervision in a school-like setting (participating in the class is not a prerequisite to involvement with PACC).

Even though the parents don’t interact face to face with their children through PACC, it is still emotional for both the volunteers and the parents.

“There were definitely tears, but there were lots of ‘Thank-you’s’ and it was really great for our staff to participate as well and just be around our client population and our clients’ families in a setting outside the courtroom to connect with them on that real human level,” said Neubert.

She added, “Every parent loves to read to their kids and I’ve never seen a kid that doesn’t love to be read to. So that was a great way to foster or maintain that parent-child bond when mom or dad is away.”


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